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Declarative language for
getting in the car.

PDA communication examples for this moment. Use only statements that are true, and offers you can follow through on.

A DIRECT INSTRUCTION “Get in the car.”

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Say what you notice

“The car is in the driveway.”

Say what you notice

“Your usual seat is ready.”

Say what you’re doing

“I’m opening the car door.”

Say what you’re doing

“I’m checking how warm the seat feels.”

Offer practical help

“I can bring the headphones to the car.”

Offer practical help

“I can help with the buckle.”

Look beyond the words.

Use clear instructions for immediate safety. Seatbelts and appropriate restraints remain essential.

Use the person’s preferred communication. A clearer request can be more helpful than an indirect hint.

What to notice next

Consider what was happening before the difficult moment, what your child communicated, and what changed afterwards. One easier occasion does not prove a strategy caused the change.

TAKE IT INTO THE NEXT CONVERSATION

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or your next appointment.

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