“The soft shirt is on the chair.”
← All situationsDECLARATIVE LANGUAGE / EVERYDAY MOMENTSDeclarative language for
Declarative language for
getting dressed.
PDA communication examples for this moment. Use only statements that are true, and offers you can follow through on.
A DIRECT INSTRUCTION “Get dressed now.”
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“The room feels chilly this morning.”
“I’m setting out two comfortable outfits.”
“I’m getting my own clothes ready.”
“I can help with the zipper.”
“I can bring your clothes to this room.”
“There’s time to get dressed after breakfast.”
Only if there really is time. Be clear about any limits.Look beyond the words.
Clothing discomfort or difficulty with fasteners can call for a practical adjustment.
Use the person’s preferred communication. A clearer request can be more helpful than an indirect hint.
What to notice next
Consider what was happening before the difficult moment, what your child communicated, and what changed afterwards. One easier occasion does not prove a strategy caused the change.
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or your next appointment.
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